anwar sadat, the least bad of all post revolution egyptian leaders signed the egyptian-israeli peace treaty thirty years ago today. the ensuing peace has been dubbed a cold peace.

as i have commented on occasion on this blog and much more often in conversation i am disturbed by the widespread anti-israel sentiment that permeates the arab world.

although israel hardly featured in my upbringing (apart from being blacked out of our atlases and history books at school), the country became increasingly interesting and appealing to me as i started to come of age politically. surveying the middle east in the mid to late 90s i was struck by the stark difference between israel and the rest of the middle east. a reasonably well functioning democracy with pockets of real innovation in industry and academia, a press that i trusted more than any in the region. i admired (and continue to admire) the young, small country’s achievements.

i also grew up with many palestinian friends. one of my earliest loves was palestinian. i sympathized with their sense of loss, insecurity and bitterness. but that sympathy rarely translated into support for their politics. the plo reeked of the corrupt incompetence that was familiar to me from my visits to egypt. i was (and still am) pro the palestinain people but have more often than not not sided with them politically.

a noteworthy personal event took place in 1996. i was living in london and took that early love to a screening of chronicle of a disappearance. elia suleiman’s post screening q&a was fascinating. elia was deeply conflicted about having made his film as an israeli with israeli funding. it occured to me at that point that no other middle eastern country at the time would have allowed, never mind funded a similarly dissenting creative work. it seemed that even an admittedly second-class arab citizen of israel had more rights than the citizens of the non-israeli middle east.

in 1998 i was in new york during israel’s 50th anniversary and merrily joined in the 5th avenue celebrations.

the following decade complicated my feelings. although my support for israel has not wavered, all sides of the conflict have been petty, ugly, at times hijacked by each side’s extremist factions and depressingly underhanded – ignoring the human suffering for political gains.

a few years ago i came close to marrying an (update: american / israeli) israeli (and former zionist). an experience that deepened my understanding of israeli society and certainly humanized the israeli idea in the same way my palestinian friends had done earlier. there is a small but vocal minority in israel that stand up for palestinian right to statehood and self-determination. unfortunately i find it much harder to find arab’s who are vocally for israel’s right to exist peacefully. so here’s me being vocal about it.

i (a born as a moslem egyptian) support israel’s right to exist pecefully and admire its achievements.

who’s with me?

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  • http://forsoothsayings.blogspot.com forsoothsayer

    i have no problem with them existing peacefully either. but obviously my opinion doesn’t count as a coptic traitor.

  • Eman

    So, someone takes your house and force you to leave. He then beautifies your house, treats his family better than you used to treat yours in the very same house you used to live in! So, this someone deserves your respect! hmmm no don't think so. it seems you picked and chose few things you like here and there and based your judgement on these things. Yes, we are oppressed in the arab world, yes, our governments do not believe in transparency and they're all are shit, and so on and so forth.. however, our bad doesn't make israel a less malicious state!

    In the arab world there are people who believe in the co-existence and i'm one of those just as theJewish/Israeli leftist do. .

    in your post, you kinda state your very very personal reasons that dictated your support to israel and which makes your post a very opinionated piece of writing (not that you claimed objectivity!) what hurts however is that you're bragging about your love to israel two months after Gaza war! it seems like you were completely out of touch when it happned and no one told you about it. here's a link to help you out: http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/series/gaza-war…

  • str82ais

    These days I'm under the influence of your Naipaul quote “the past has to be seen to be dead; or the past will kill.”

    I'm also under the influence of “who moved my cheese?” the story of two humans and two mice who feed off a giant piece of cheese. One day, the cheese's gone, the mice immediately scurry away looking for new fortunes, but the humans go: “who moved MY cheese”.

    So, yeah, hey, Israel is reality and the Palestinians should move on, and the Arabs and the sympathisers and everybody else. The Palestine of past has to be seen as dead or, bloody hell, it will phosphor-bomb kill you. Those who moan about Israel should stop saying “who occupied MY Palestine” and scurry off chasing new dreams.

    Does the above look right to you?

  • http://avantcaire.com avantcaire

    yes ahmed – my point is focus on the future rather than settling the past. alleviating the hopeless state of palestine's refugees seems much more pressing than arguing over precise land borders.

    eman – the recent gaza war was not israel's finest hour. perspective is in order though. most countries tend malicious- israel's unchecked regional dominance doesn't help. no such thing as a country with a clean slate. i have heard the 'someone moves in to your house' line often – but that episode is over. as part of the post 48, post 67 generation the goalposts have shifted from reclaiming palestine to reclaiming palestinian self-determination alongside the region's new superpower. what is important to me is dealing with the refugees, building a peaceful prosperous gaza etc.
    my post was less a brag of love for israel than a call for more vocal arab support for peaceful coexistence – and i welcome your voice.

    forsoothsayer- glad to see you've traitorously fallen in line. i also support your right to an obedient second-class citizenship.

  • Ahmed

    I am with avantcaire and believe in a peaceful existence of Israel. There's a lot of work on required from both sides to make this possible. The xenophobia runs extremely high on both the Israeli and the Arab sides.
    In response to Eman's reply, I say that peaceful and respectful coexistence doesn't have to come at the price of turning a blind eye to the crimes that were committed (by both sides). We must reconcile our past issues before we're able to move forward (this includes the Right of Return, etc.). As idealistic as this may sound today, it is not that far fetched; look at the State of Israel and Germany as a good example of reconciliation.
    In all cases, Coptic, Muslim, Jew, Armenian, Durzi, etc. etc. our region is full of rich heritages and we must learn to live and learn from each other. It's a unfair to say that all the work has to be done from the Arab side; I just read the results of a survey about the Israeli's attitude/ perception of Arabs and they were quite negative. Both sides have to learn more about each other and seek out their similarities and common grounds.
    Ahmed

  • http://avantcaire.com avantcaire

    thank you for adding your voice ahmed.

    i am in agreement with your thoughts and sentiments. i especially appreciate your view on how things can move from idealism to realism with surprising speed.
    there is of course plenty of work to be done on both sides of the wall. an important part of that work is chipping away at the prejudices and mis- (or non-) understandings of each other. here's to moving beyond the mutual vilification.

  • http://avantcaire.com avantcaire

    thank you for adding your voice ahmed.

    i am in agreement with your thoughts and sentiments. i especially appreciate your view on how things can move from idealism to realism with surprising speed.
    there is of course plenty of work to be done on both sides of the wall. an important part of that work is chipping away at the prejudices and mis- (or non-) understandings of each other. here's to moving beyond the mutual vilification.

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